Significance
Hartalika Teej, on the third day of the bright fortnight of Bhadra, is one of the most rigorous fasts observed by Hindu women -- particularly in Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh, Bihar, and Nepal. "Hartalika" means "she who was taken by her friend" -- Parvati's friend took her to the forest to save her from an unwanted marriage arranged by her father Himalaya. Parvati then performed such severe penance in the forest that Lord Shiva was compelled to accept her as his wife. Women fast without water and food for 24 hours, worshipping Shiva and Parvati for marital bliss and the well-being of their husbands.
Preparation
Rituals & Vidhi
Clay Idol Making
In the evening before the fast, create clay idols of Shiva and Parvati on a bed of sand. Decorate with flowers and dress Parvati in red.
Night Vigil Puja
Perform the all-night puja of Shiva and Parvati with Bilva leaves, dhatura, flowers, and incense. Read or listen to the Hartalika Teej Vrat Katha.
Mantra: Om Namah Shivaya. Om Gauri Shankaraya Namah.
Stayawake Night
Women observe Jaagran (night vigil) -- singing Teej songs, swinging on flower-decorated jhulas (swings), and telling the story of Parvati's devotion.
Morning Visarjan
After 24 hours, the clay idols are immersed in water (visarjan). The fast is broken by the married woman after her husband applies sindoor to her forehead.
Fasting
This is a strict Nirjala (waterless) fast for married women lasting 24 hours. Women with health conditions may consume water. The fast is broken only after the morning puja and idol immersion.
Family Guidance
Daughters can observe a partial fast with fruits. Teach them the story of Parvati's determination -- the ultimate model of devotion that moves even the gods. Have the family help decorate the swing and listen to Teej songs together.