Significance
Raksha Bandhan, on the full moon of Shravana, celebrates the sacred bond between brother and sister. The sister ties a Rakhi (sacred thread) on her brother's wrist, praying for his protection and well-being; the brother pledges to protect her. Mythologically, Goddess Lakshmi tied a Rakhi on King Bali to secure Lord Vishnu's freedom; Indra's wife tied a protective thread on Indra before his war with the Asuras; and Kunti tied a thread to Abhimanyu before the battle of Kurukshetra. The thread is not merely cotton -- it is a covenant of love and protection.
Preparation
Rituals & Vidhi
Puja Thali Preparation
Arrange the puja thali with a lit diya, kumkum, rice (akshat), and the Rakhi. The sister first performs aarti of her brother.
Tilak and Rakhi
The sister applies kumkum tilak on the brother's forehead, then scatters rice (for longevity), and ties the Rakhi on his right wrist while praying.
Mantra: Yena Baddho Bali Raja Danvendro Mahah Balah. Tena Tvam Pratibadhnami Rakshey Ma Cha La Ma Cha La.
Aarti
Perform the aarti of the brother with the diya, waving it in a clockwise motion for his health, success, and long life.
Sweet Exchange
The brother feeds his sister sweets and gives a gift, pledging his protection and care. The family enjoys sweets together.
Family Guidance
If siblings are far apart, send a Rakhi by post in advance. Children can make their own Rakhi with thread and beads as a craft activity, which deepens the emotional significance. Discuss the value of standing up for family members.